Old Man Gardening!(OMG)

I wish I had learned about old man gardening when I was younger! The concept of OMG is to do as much gardening as you want/need without wrecking your body or stressing your brain. Achieving gardening satisfaction, in my case an important element in achieving life happiness, without compromising physical or mental wellbeing is the objective.

A couple of points need recognition. Firstly, my brain thinks I can achieve greater productivity than my body can deliver – a bit of an aging phenomenon. Secondly, being in control of a project results in even greater satisfaction when it is completed – an age independent characteristic, and hence applicable to everyone.

I never really “got into” those books that described the annual gardening calendar- what to do when. The heart of these books is to provide instruction on what activities need to be done to keep a garden vibrant. A secondary point is to assist in planning workload. This latter point is the philosophy behind OMG.

For many gardeners, winter tends to be a period of keeping warm , perhaps doing a bit of tidying up and enjoying the skeleton of the garden. In the Deep South , transition from winter to spring isn’t an orderly, timely progression – it’s like a switch that gets flicked.As such any work that can be done over winter is a real bonus.

To give an example of OMG ; in the autumn, CP and I, over coffee on an outside bench, discussed the virtues of buddleia – beautiful flowers, attracts insects, easy to grow, simple pruning, does well in the south, reminiscent of home. We decided to install an avenue ( maybe even a copse) of these lovely bushes. As a starter we identified that 9 plants would get us going – not such a small job – could be a little off putting? OMG?

  • after a January downpour, when the ground is easily workable dig 9 big holes – clean my spade – take a bath and have a glass of wine
  • a few days later on a cold frosty morning go and buy a few bags of compost and some hollytone soil amendment – have lunch.
  • ring around a few garden centers to check on plant availability
  • at some point, drive for 45 minutes with my pall, blowing the breeze and stop for coffee then pick them up – two to load/inload!
  • On the next fine day , have a leisurely planting session – maybe even over 2 days
  • at the first opportunity have coffee with CP and inspect the installation- maybe even get a pat on the back!

The point of OMG is to do whatever you want in the garden but to plan it so that you are never psychologically overwhelmed by the size of the task and your body is never over taxed. The days of being faced with a day of digging and planting 50 specimens in a single day are long over!

The buddleia ( yellow ‘honeycombe”) are now installed – the project took about 3 weeks to complete. The hardest part was living with the mess of “ in process” – but that was also the spur to not let it drag on for too long.

I happen to be a sprightly, free spirited male who is somewhat aging. OMG is not gender or age specific and is applicable to anyone who is taking on garden projects.

Job done!!

Autumn Plans – finessing.

AndAllen is coming to the end of its 3rd season and it is time to reflect on what is working and what is not.

Two high level observations. Firstly the overall strategy for the property and design of the garden is solid – very happy with how it has developed. Secondly, gardening in Georgia is a bit more demanding than in NC – slightly higher temperatures and levels of humidity and of course the Georgia clay! The assumption that plants which thrived in NC would do so here only partially holds true – there have been a few more casualties than I anticipated.The perennial beds which benefited from soil replacement have done well. Crevice gardening has been a challenge; the woodland garden is slowly evolving but the reception beds at the front of the house need a rethink.

In addition to plants succumbing, others have done too well and crowded out their neighbors. As an example Verbena “Jenny” has been very aggressive in the crevice garden, not only smothering other plants but totally obscuring the rock structure – which in itself is an attractive feature. It is being totally removed from the crevice garden and will be incorporated as an edging plant around the Japanese area. A pretty plant with wonderful pink blooms – right plant, wrong place.

Verbena Jenny (top right) starting its rampant journey to dominance!

There are 3 reception beds at the front of the property – one was designed around blue toned conifers ( which is doing very well) whist the other 2 incorporated roses – a nod to my father-in-law Allen, a successful rose exhibitor. Sadly, the roses have not done too well. The first season they were fine with strong blooming/reblooming, but downhill from there. Characterized by straggly growth,despite appropriate pruning, a short single blooming period and frequent infestation by Japanese beetles- they were not presenting well. Now they are gone. One bed has been replanted with blue toned conifers ( grey owl, blue star ), enhanced with a dwarf burgundy crape Myrtle- a nice color combo.The other is planned to maintain a yellow theme with daffodils and yellow perennials bouncing off dwarf burgundy loropetalum. Soil amendment will be enhanced.

The main observations in the woodland garden center around shrubs dying. No one species has died out although hybridized azaleas look to be on the “threatened” list. It is just that here and there plants have just given up. The way forward is to diversify and try a number of different shrubs. Once the damaged and dying hardwoods (partly from hurricane Helene) are removed this work will begin – hopefully completed by Spring. One pleasing aspect is the survival of both witch hazels and all 4 Edgworthia. This is my first attempt at a woodland garden and I suspect a five year plan horizon may be a little optimistic!

Woodland walk evolving nicely


Finally,the perennial beds. Dividing the successful ones, planting more asters, lantana and golden rod for autumn color and trying to find the elusive plant that is prepared to give it a go and flower when it is 100 degrees ( lantana is the first candidate). Canna and Asclepias have done well and all the die back will be maintained till early February for the benefit of birds, insects and wildlife.

Lantana blooming well in November!

Looking forward to a bit of work over the winter!

A long wet winter

In the 20+ years I have been in the US this is probably the longest and wettest winter experienced. Normally winter brings with it a list of jobs that you go through when the weather allows and in a normal year the garden is in good shape once the clocks change in March. Over 23/24 though it seems to have been difficult to get some momentum going hence a bit of catch up needed. However a bit of planning was done and a few ideas sorted.

Removing last years skeletons from the perennial beds.

The first practical thing done in ‘24 was to get an understanding of the winter casualties – the “death list”. The most notable (expensive to replace) are one of the specimen flowering cherries and a dwarf Japanese Acer. The former happened to be in a slightly water logged part of the garden whilst the Acer seemed to be impacted by last years summer heat and went into winter a bit stressed. There had been quite a few casualties in the crevice garden.

One of the winter highlights helping to get us through to Spring.

The 4 sections of AndAllen all had different priorities -in the woodland garden we are in year 3 of a 5+ year plan so tidying out unwanted natural plants and some further planting of understory framework plants would continue. The crevice garden is all about trying to fill the space vacated by deceased plants – sounds easy but experience to date says that finding robust plants is definitely not easy.The front garden and perennial garden just needed tidying up and any gaps filled.

First sign of Spring.Vivid red twigs still showing winter color.

The weather delays were further compounded by the need to travel back to the motherland for a few weeks to deal with a family matter. Bad news for the Spring garden plan, but on the plus side, this would be a real test of how resilient the garden and its planting is. Reality dawned – it was highly unlikely that I would get ahead of Mother Nature and I would be working hand to hand throughout 2024.

spring cherry blossom!

Ugly Beauty

As we approach Thanksgiving, the garden is in transition as fall drifts into winter. Many horticultural aficionados turn to reflecting on the seasons past – re- sharing those pictures full of glorious color. However, at this time of the year there is an opportunity to absorb a different kind of beauty, let’s call it “an ugly beauty”.

The first frost stimulates canna to reabsorb – green waxy to brown and crisp in 48 hours

The cycle of life is easiest to appreciate in perennial plants. By now they have done their stuff – rapid growth , flowered and pollinated, seed production and distribution, fed the roots.If we are lucky then we may be left with an attractive plant skeleton – often best seen after overnight frosts.If not, then we may be left with a brown mess – but it is important not to be over zealous to cut it back.

Plant skeletons – residual seed heads – seasonal bird food – will only be removed when new growth appears.In its own way – natures beauty!

As well as residual seeds providing seasonal bird food, plant skeletons and debris provides shelter for insects, snakes and small mammals. An important service for the environmental well being…. and not unattractive – an ugly beauty!

Still plenty of interest here!

I live with this phase of the garden until around the end of January/ early February when ,here in the south,new growth starts to become apparent. Normally, it is cut back over a weekend , cut and spread in the woodland and then the main garden is ready for mulching.And then the magic starts again!

Inspiration

Some wise gardener once said something like “a great garden is the result of 99% perspiration and 1% inspiration”. This notion holds very true. There is something very satisfying about doing a days work – the amalgam of the high of physical activity with the sense of progress made. Equally well, spending a chunk of time looking for ideas is rewarding – sometimes it can be reading, sometimes a serendipitous day out.

Looking North up “The High Line”

A mid morning,late October walk down the High Line in New York City provided a lovely day out with quite a few ideas to consider.

The High Line is known for its grass planting so did not disappoint.

AndAllen has a smattering of grasses but the latest High Line walk cemented the idea that more grasses would be a good investment.

pink Muhly at AndAllen

white Muhly at AndAllen

first grass planting at AndAllen

The next thing that struck me on the High Line walk was the wonderful contrast of deciduous autumn color with evergreens – definitely will help shape next years Spring planting design.

Coincidentally, the winter edition of The Irish Garden has a great article on evergreens.The Irish climate is very different to that in Georgia but nonetheless plenty of ideas to consider.

New England Aster

Understandably, there is a temptation to focus on leaf color but fall flowering perennials also give a great effect. This aster does very nicely in Georgia and will be a nice foil against grasses and deciduous shrubs.

Perfection!

Walking the High Line with friends is great fun.Lots of chit chat and laughs but with half an eye on the planting – a special day out!

Just Let Your Soul Grow

Andy did most of his gardening at his allotment. For those not familiar, allotments are tracts of land, generally owned by the local council that people can rent for a nominal sum. Andy’s allotment was surrounded by people growing vegetables but some kept chickens, one guy kept budgerigars and seven were pigeon fanciers. Essentially, these were community gardens where people could carry out their hobbies and get to know each other in the process. Non gardeners would often walk through the allotments just in the hope of meeting a friendly soul for a bit of crack.


Of course, in recent years there has been an uptick in the number of “custom” community gardens. On our 2023 tour of the North we visited a great community garden in Sunderland, aptly named “Just let your soul grow”. A wonderful space, curated by the wonderful Jen and encouraged by her side kick,Phil (pictured above). – that stimulates loads of community activities. Encouraging children to garden, be aware of nature, a place for mothers and toddlers to meet,seniors to find companionship and even partake some light exercise and so forth.

Both ends of the age spectrum having fun




Pictures tell the story.

Curator Jen with side kick Phil.

In a world where strife, economics, politics, natural and man made disasters seem to grab the news headlines, it is refreshing to come across 2 highly motivated individuals who work to enrich the lives of their neighbours. Also the value of gardening stretches way beyond growing a few flowers or veg. I guess the message is to support your local community garden.


Spring Cleaning

January,a normally grungy dark month,turned out to be rather productive in 2023. CP decided,unilaterally I may add, that all out effort would be applied to Spring cleaning! This positive philosophy was applied to the whole house,including areas (the garage; my office) traditionally under my jurisdiction.After a little resistance, I have to admit that her enthusiasm became infectious.This resulted in the purchase of a”garden tool stand” ,a bike rack and a few additional general purpose storage bins.

It must be Spring!

CP has skills way beyond my comprehension.With a single sentence she can initiate actions to resolve the thorniest of issues. “What can we do to make it easier for you to enjoy your gardening magazines?” ( my translation to that was “I find these little piles of magazines randomly popping up in various parts of the house a little disconcerting”). In order to maintain control, a process was spontaneously designed to identify articles of interest, remove them from the magazine, trim the edges, staple them together and file them in one of the recently purchased storage bins! – recycling the remainder of the magazine to assist in saving the planet. The result was a pile of about 100 magazines now condensed into 2 x 4” A4 storage bins. The beauty of this new process is that at the end of every quarter, recently acquired magazines can be dealt with “in real time”. The process has been future proofed as I have room for an additional storage bin and when all 3 are full all I have to do is throw out the 25% of articles that have proven to be of little value.🤗 I feel tired!

Lambs gamboling…. Only in the Spring. The Richhill walk!


Of course not to be outdone, I then initiated the Spring clean of the garden! Over lunch I casually dropped into the conversation “ I wonder how best to clean up the perennial beds to your liking ?” Reverse psychology- a newly learned skill – my first element of this years ongoing further education. Silence! – the bait was not taken. So I just went out and cut everything down and put it on the compost heap.


To my surprise,there was quite a lot of new growth coming through so I decided to mulch early, at the end of January. The objective to get it done before spring bulbs started to appear and minimize the risk of damage.


I had started to build up a relationship with Jay, a young, high quality landscaper who had set up his own business so we talked about “mulch”. The norm in our area is to used shredded pine bark that has been dyed black, brown or red – or even worse “pine straw” (say no more). I do not like “dyed” – an inappropriate use of chemicals so we went for natural shredded hardwood mulch (a saving of $7/ cu yd over “dyed”).


An interesting discussion re the quantity of mulch needed – Jay thought 40 cu yds – I thought 30 – it was actually 60!
Jay and his team of 7 did the job in a day.


Pots have been cleaned, the storage box reorganized, irrigation system extended, patio furniture cleaned, roses fertilized – not a bad start to the year…….. and when the dodgy February weather arrives , lots of well sorted gardening articles to read!

Atlanta Botanic Garden – Festive Lights ( the joy of hard work).


A picture tells a thousand stories! We were fortunate to get to see the fabulous festive lights at Atlanta Botanic garden on 2 occasions – one just after Christmas and one on the final weekend in January. Impressive!

On the second visit, it was much less crowded and we arrived just before nightfall. This allowed a glimpse of how the light show was staged. Millions of bulbs; speakers all around for the accompanying sound show; supporting poles,nets and cables; no doubt there were control systems with bespoke software. All in all a massive undertaking.


A huge amount of work for that transient “wow” moment.


Just like many aspects of life,moments of joy are normally preceded by a lot of hard work – practice, developing competency, mastering new skills,building the foundations, building relationships,determination in execution……. Whether it is your profession,how you earn a living, the pastime you enjoy, the investment in your children – there is pretty much a correlation between effort expended and the output.


At AndAllen a neighbor pulls up and comments on how well ‘the yellow bed’ is looking. Pleasing that someone notices….. and is prepared to take the effort to give feedback. All the hardwork put in to thinking of the design, choosing and sourcing the plants – roses, lantana and varieties of daffodils, preparing the soil,planting, pruning,fertilizing, weeding – now all worthwhile. Is it work? Not if you get enjoyment from doing it! Not if you get a buzz from that ‘wow’ moment!


The Botanic garden festive experience is down to someone’s vision and determination to make it happen, marshaling a team of people with the technical skills to create the images and the many volunteers to guide us through the experience. A wonderful event that offers up new insights no matter how many times you visit. Just seeing the expression on Rosie’s face as we saunter round makes the effort of visiting all worthwhile and that alone is why we should thank the team at Atlanta Botanic Garden.


December

November is a busy month for us. Half our closest family have birthdays around this month which means travel and some rather pleasant (childrens) partying! Then, of course, there is Thanksgiving to prepare for- and enjoy – with one eye always on the upcoming festive season. In the garden November is always a busy month. Living in the south,the elevated temperatures means that early November is prime bulb planting time and of course there is the additional maintenance -and enjoyment – that comes with fall. Despite the milder climate the one thing I always arrange to be done in November is the winterization of the irrigation system – much needed in 2022 due to the Arctic bomb that hit our area resulting in temperatures hitting -14 degrees Celsius.

Nellie Steven’s holly was planted with the main eye on winter berries.

December is a different kind of month. Much more relaxing, reflective and full of promise. It starts off well with CPs birthday to celebrate. Then the gradual build up to the festive season – the best time of the year. The magic of the Christmas spirit – the notion of goodwill to all – very uplifting. The memories of childhood Christmas’ past and the desire to create new memories with our younger generations. The promise of a New Year – hopes and dreams – aspirations of better things ahead of us, built upon our reflections of, hopefully, a year well lived. December is a good month!

Camellia offers winter color and well chosen foliage plants spark interest.

December offers plenty of opportunities in the garden – from the simple pot of bright,happy faced viola, highly scented Edgeworthia chrysantha, early flowering Camellia,red bark of Cornus and Acer sango kaku , yellow spires of Mahonia – Mother Nature offers us interest throughout the whole year.

Mahonia – planted in October to provide winter interest – if it does well there will be more planted.

December is the perfect time to reflect on the year past and look forward to the year ahead. 2022 was a year of turbulence for the world – a war in Ukraine; strife in other regions and the ongoing suffering of millions of people looking for a better life; a series of natural disasters; political turmoil on the back of the pandemic recovery and raging inflation. Whilst all these things cascade down to our own personal lives, on balance the year was good to our family.

Buds of Edgworthia getting ready to burst.

Buds starting to swell on the cherry trees.

In the garden, 2022 was the year the journey began.We are happy with how it has worked out – the crevice garden is maturing,the perennial beds filled out really well in the first year, the woodland garden (perhaps the biggest challenge) is starting to look promising; all the acers and cherry trees have survived! A long way to go but a nice start. A walk around shows buds that are swelling, flowers and leaves that are getting ready for a new cycle – something to look forward to in 2023.

Red twig cornus doing what it does best – a popping red color developing as the temperatures falls.

Falling for Autumn

A short breath ago, CP and I had a magical moment! We were setting on the patio enjoying our coffee of the day, a cool but sunny morning – perfectly still.In a rare moment of quiet, just as we were looking at the woodland garden, we heard the sound of rustling leaves. Moments later the stillness of the moment was broken as a breeze from the south east brought life to the turning leaves and the leaf blizzard resumed. We both love autumn!

Leaf lawn!

The last hummingbird of the year was spotted the second week of October, a lone female, quite a stark contrast to a few weeks earlier, when this years fledglings were playing and buzzing around the feeder. The thought that crossed my mind – was this lone female having her last fuel stop with us before starting the long journey south or was she just “killing time”? The beauty that is autumn is the brief moment between vitality and senescence.

New York aster (Symphyotrichum novi-belgii) shows off in the autumn.

In the gardening cycle, some plants just have a long lie in, like me on a Sunday morning, during Spring, start stirring during summer and then come into splendor as autumn approaches. Chrysanthemum, asters, and sedum “Autumn Joy” have done well this year for a bit of bright autumn color to harmonize with the coppers and golds of deciduous leaves.

Sedum “Autumn joy” gives color and texture in the perennial beds

Autumn is a time to enjoy the rewards of the work put in during spring and summer – but it is not just a time to sit and marvel. Autumn is also the time to prepare for spring color- being the optimum time to plant spring bulbs. With AndAllen being a new garden there is limited spring color from early flowering perennials so this planting is an imperative.

1200+ bulbs planted in November

Camassia,daffodils,iris,anemone,ipheon,crocus,allium planted in the perennial beds, crevice garden,woodland walk, Acer garden and yellow bed. We just have to wait a few months to see if the planting plan worked.